Add node:sqlite StatementSync compatibility methods

[timsehn]

Summary

• add StatementSync compatibility methods used by node:sqlite consumers and Drizzle: setReturnArrays, setReadBigInts, setAllowBareNamedParameters, and setAllowUnknownNamedParameters
• make get/all/iterate honor array-return mode and BigInt integer reads
• match node:sqlite named-parameter defaults by throwing on unknown named params unless explicitly allowed

Testing

• npm run build
• npx -y bun test test/
• opencode-shaped Drizzle repro using drizzle-orm/node-sqlite against the local binding